Buried
September 14, 2006
Buried
There is one thing that every single person on this Earth shares, emotions. We all have them and we all express them differently. Happiness, Sadness, Excitement, Joy, Depression, Fear, Resentment, Confusion, Love, Lost, Anger, Pain…you get the point. Many different things can cause these emotions, such as people, events, and even our own stupidity. It’s almost as if the emotion experienced is stronger if it is our own fault though. The guilt, the pain, whatever it is that you are expressing inside, feels like a hole in your heart because sometimes it is too late to change things.
One emotion that seems to come up a lot in many lives’ is love. We all want love and it seems as simple as: We find love, or we don’t. We have love, but do we keep it or let it go? Does the love stay strong throughout a lifetime or does it slowly diminish with age? Do we fall out of love and find a different means of satisfying our new-found desires? Different relationships show different outcomes. For some of us, we find love and we let it go, thinking there is better, more tolerable person out there for us. We didn’t see the love we had in front of us, we had it and let is slip through the cracks. Just like every other meaningful possession, people in our lives’ also, that we let go, they falls through these cracks, beneath the solid pavement. At first, it’s only just below it, still seemingly in grasp, but as time goes by, so much stuff gets put on top of it, more dirt and rock, and it just gets buried. Eventually, you are unable to get it back.
What do you do when you’ve let that one and only person for you slip away because of your own selfishness? At first, you thought, he’s not good enough. He’s not right for me. There is someone who is right for me, and it isn’t him. When, in truth, he was there. He was right there, in your arms, holding your heart and had given his heart to you to cherish forever and you threw it back at him. Sometimes you don’t realize just how important, how loving a relationship is…until you lose it. So, the question is, how do you get it back? How do you get him/her back into your life when so much time has passed and so much pain has come and gone? Life is not a fairytale. Sorry Ladies, as much as we want to find our prince charming, lose him, and miraculously find each other in the end, reality doesn’t work that way. We need to cherish the good memories and forget about him. No doubt, since he is male, he has moved on and you are also buried beneath his sidewalk…so why not keep it buried. Move on and find yourself who will accept your heart in replace of their own. But remember this…when you do pull in someone’s heart and love exists, don’t let it go.
Buried
There is one thing that every single person on this Earth shares, emotions. We all have them and we all express them differently. Happiness, Sadness, Excitement, Joy, Depression, Fear, Resentment, Confusion, Love, Lost, Anger, Pain…you get the point. Many different things can cause these emotions, such as people, events, and even our own stupidity. It’s almost as if the emotion experienced is stronger if it is our own fault though. The guilt, the pain, whatever it is that you are expressing inside, feels like a hole in your heart because sometimes it is too late to change things.
One emotion that seems to come up a lot in many lives’ is love. We all want love and it seems as simple as: We find love, or we don’t. We have love, but do we keep it or let it go? Does the love stay strong throughout a lifetime or does it slowly diminish with age? Do we fall out of love and find a different means of satisfying our new-found desires? Different relationships show different outcomes. For some of us, we find love and we let it go, thinking there is better, more tolerable person out there for us. We didn’t see the love we had in front of us, we had it and let is slip through the cracks. Just like every other meaningful possession, people in our lives’ also, that we let go, they falls through these cracks, beneath the solid pavement. At first, it’s only just below it, still seemingly in grasp, but as time goes by, so much stuff gets put on top of it, more dirt and rock, and it just gets buried. Eventually, you are unable to get it back.
What do you do when you’ve let that one and only person for you slip away because of your own selfishness? At first, you thought, he’s not good enough. He’s not right for me. There is someone who is right for me, and it isn’t him. When, in truth, he was there. He was right there, in your arms, holding your heart and had given his heart to you to cherish forever and you threw it back at him. Sometimes you don’t realize just how important, how loving a relationship is…until you lose it. So, the question is, how do you get it back? How do you get him/her back into your life when so much time has passed and so much pain has come and gone? Life is not a fairytale. Sorry Ladies, as much as we want to find our prince charming, lose him, and miraculously find each other in the end, reality doesn’t work that way. We need to cherish the good memories and forget about him. No doubt, since he is male, he has moved on and you are also buried beneath his sidewalk…so why not keep it buried. Move on and find yourself who will accept your heart in replace of their own. But remember this…when you do pull in someone’s heart and love exists, don’t let it go.


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